
By Ernest Hancock
Graduating Children or Adults
Got Children? How about
grandchildren or other children you love? If not, then maybe you
have an opinion about how your life is impacted by children
educated in government approved schools. I’d like to make some
observations and share some experiences, but a libertarian
certainly knows better than to tell another parent how they
should raise their children.
Years ago I thought it in my youngest daughter’s best interest
not to attend any of the public education options available to
us during her 6th grade year. With the help of family, friends
and tax credit programs my three other children attended a
private school we are very happy with that starts in the 7th
grade. I was not willing to risk having one child exposed to all
of the things I knew were going on without another one of their
siblings there to keep me informed of what was happening (which
they always did). So for my daughter’s entire 6th grade year she
went to work with her mother and me at our family’s pizza
restaurant. For a couple of hours each morning, a long time
friend that was retired from the Air Force would tutor her for a
small fee. She would then work about 6 hours a day where she was
taught _everything_ about running a restaurant. She was paid
less than minimum wage but was expected to maintain a high
standard in all that she did. Dealing with vendors, employees
and customers at every level was soon mastered by this young
lady and she earned the respect of anyone that came into contact
with her. When she expressed a desire to become a veterinarian
we arranged for her to work as a volunteer at an animal hospital
near our home for the entire school year. This single year was
responsible for making certain in our minds that our daughter
would be able to survive in the world on her own while
contributing to her community instead of being a burden.
During this time I had both State and Federal labor departments
send men that reminded me of the small man in the movie Chitty
Chitty Bang Bang that wore all black with a top hat and a big
net that peered around corners saying, “where are the children,
where are the children”. Regardless of the fear tactics used I
knew the law and what I was doing was legal. Children and
Grandchildren of business owners are exempt from child labor
laws (that family farm thing) and home schooling curriculum is
the parent’s business. Would I have been right to do as I did in
a state that would put me in jail for what I did?
I remember after a lecture from the federal agent with the big
shiny badge, I asked how he thought he was going to convince a
libertarian that government knew what was best for my children?
The conversation continued but with much more respect for what
our family thought was important.
This experience reinforced what I already knew. Real life
experience for our children is far more productive for their
development as young adults and there’s a long list of
government agencies that want to play parent with my children. I
was pumping gas and learning to weld in my father’s service
station when I was 6 years old. I’m sure many of you have
similar stories to tell. Did you benefit from the experience? I
believe mothers and fathers are far better parents than any
level of government and every form of Social and Economic
Engineering I encounter has been proven to be detrimental not
only to freedom but to building a strong and self-confident
America. There was a day that apprenticeships were common. And I
predict that they’ll be back in vogue soon… because parents love
their children.
An objective evaluation of your children at the end of this
school year may prompt you to ask yourself how they would fare
in the job market. Did others you entrusted to help raise them
give them the tools needed to survive on their own? Are they on
a path to being a self sustaining individual that will not be a
burden to others?
It might be time for a summer job, and I wouldn’t wait until the
government approved age of 16 either.
Ernest Hancock can be heard
weeknights on KFNX 1100am's "Declare Your Independence with
Ernest Hancock" from 6 to 8 p.m. Ernest can be reached at
602-717-5900, http://ernesthancock.com
and ernesthancock@cox.net.